What is your non-negotiables???
What are the things in life that you want that you will not negotiate in having. Some say it would be an athletic partner, a kind heart, chocolate, and even beer.
Why is it that if someone is in an abusive relationship people are quick to say get out, your gut tells you to get out of the relationship. Know how many of you when I said abusive relationship figured it was a husband and wife or boyfriend/girlfriend being physically abused. Most do, What if I brought it to your attention that I meant brother and sister, mother and daughter, father and son, Aunt and niece, or even co-worker to co-worker being verbally and emotionally abusive.
Why is it that we never want to see our transparency? Why don’t we realize that verbal and emotional abuse leaves a much longer and deeper scare than physical.
If you are in a relationship or know of someone that is in a relationship described above.
TAKE A STANCE, believe that all you have to do is leap and get out, all you have to do is support not judge people who are in a relationship like that. ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE HEARD. The leap is that easy, it’s the FEAR that over comes us.
Every success story of anyone who has been abused and survived the end story goes like this ” I had,had enough and just left, I just walked out, it was the most amazing feeling in the world” ” I survived”
Take a stance, believe in your non-negotiables… I believe in you.